Even the most secure service for singles, such as Znakomstva-MailRu.com, It does not relieve users from the obligation to be careful in dealing with others. Below is a list of situations, requiring the retention of greater vigilance.
Behavior and situation, which should alert:
- user, immediately after they met wants to know personal email address;
- future potential partners are invited to a meeting in his or your home;
- once when meeting invites in my car;
- conversations threads begin to touch money, including credit cards;
- an incorrectly written in Russian;
- suddenly there is a feeling, that new acquaintance accelerates events on acquaintance;
- there is a sudden desire to spend a first date and the person asked me to send him money for travel;
- interviewee gives evasive answers to specific questions;
- urges compromise, inconsistent with your values;
- обвиняет окружающих в своих проблемах.
Not recommended:
- to lend money to the person with whom only met on the Internet;
- engage in any company in which you are invited newfound friend;
- tolerate foul language, too intimate, or the wrong questions, introduction of the, associated with sexual fantasies;
- too quick contact by phone or e-mail;
- too quick to reveal his name, phone number, place of work.
Time for the first conversation will only, when online dating is successful. The first telephone conversation with another person, It is an important element of mutual knowledge, but you need to install in safe mode with a regular phone or mobile – but with the condition that the last of the service numbers antiopredeleniya.
Before you exchange phone numbers, We need to make sure, что собеседник обязуется относиться с уважением к вашей конфиденциальности и не будет названивать в случае разрыва отношений. Обычно принято, that man proposes to the woman number, leaving behind her decision to make a phone call, but it is a very individual matter.
Before you meet with the person, encountered in the network, should carry out its own exploration. No website, which would perform 100% check user data. Portals have to rely on people's honesty, who fill out the questionnaire, especially on the issue date of birth, family status, living place, professions, education, as well as other important data.
Before the meeting should look for its data on the Internet. Of course in the beginning, you can search for information in search engines. Often, information on wanted man is on the company's website, there may be published data on the marital status of his photos from corporate events, etc.. If the search engine does not give the second step is to find in social networks. In them if you found it is often possible to learn about the real situation of the family, friends, hobby, preferences, place of residence.
Pay attention to details, which divides people, and if you find something, that is suspicious, Follow your intuition and complete acquaintance. Important, before the meeting also exchanged photos. If the person before meeting refuses to show you my photo, it is suspicious. In this situation, it is recommended not to go to a meeting.
